There is no do not disturb setting for pregnancy loss. I think people assume you wake up one morning pregnant and go to bed beginning to process a loss. That’s not always the case.
Motherhood is so layered. My confidence took a huge hit, but I’m coming back.
If I wanted a pity party, I’d send an Evite and invite everyone to it.
You’re invited! Join me for a Pity Party! Bring my baby’s heartbeat back with your stories, strangers experiences, and tears! Remember non-alcoholic beverages only because the baby has a small chance of still being alive. We will know for sure next week!
Super awkward right?
Having living children does not make the loss less difficult. I don’t know who this new me is yet. “I don’t feel like talking” expresses that confusion.
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